Mending The Heart: Healing the Wounds of Parental Hurt: Your Path to Healing After Childhood Abandonment and Emotional Neglect
Ramatu AllenMany adults are carrying invisible wounds from childhood-emotional neglect, abandonment, unmet attachment needs, and the quiet pain of not being fully seen, nurtured, or protected. These wounds often show up later as people-pleasing, emotional exhaustion, difficulty trusting, weak boundaries, and chronic self-doubt, even in high-functioning, faith-filled lives.
Mending the Heart: Healing the Wounds of Parental Hurt invites readers into a compassionate, trauma-aware healing journey rooted in faith, emotional wisdom, and practical restoration. Drawing from my personal story and years of healing work, we explore what I call "Mother's Thirst" and "Father's Hunger"-the unmet needs for nurture, safety, validation, and guidance that shape adult behavior, relationships, and identity.
Through a gentle five-step healing framework, readers learn how to:
- Name and validate their pain without shame
- Regulate their emotions through mindfulness, grounding, journaling, and prayer
- Rebuild self-trust and self-compassion
- Establish healthy emotional boundaries
- Release old patterns and step into emotional wholeness
This book is not about blaming parents or reliving pain. It's about reclaiming your voice, restoring your nervous system, strengthening your faith, and learning how to live from safety instead of survival.
Healing doesn't happen through pressure or perfection. It happens through honesty, gentleness, and consistent care.
If you've ever felt unseen, emotionally overextended, stuck in old relational patterns, or quietly longing for deeper peace and clarity, Mending the Heart offers a grounded path toward healing, freedom, and renewed identity.
If this reflects the kind of healing your heart desires, it's time to mend what was broken... and become the woman you were always meant to be.
Binding Type: Paperback
Publisher: Published by Kingdom Renewal Press Ohio, Unit
Published: 09/26/2025
ISBN: 9798995811701
Pages: 250
Weight: 0.65lbs
Size: 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.57d
