Duped: Double Lives, False Identities, and the Con Man I Almost Married

Abby Ellin was shocked to learn that her fianc (c)as leading a secret life. But as she soon discovered, the world is full of people who aren't what they seem.

From Abby Ellin's first date with the Commander, she was caught up in a whirlwind. Within six months he'd proposed, and they'd moved in together. But soon, his exotic stories of international espionage began to unravel. Finally, it all became clear: he was lying about who he was.

After leaving him and sharing her story, she was floored to find out that her experience was far from unique. People everywhere, many of them otherwise sharp-witted and self-aware, are being deceived by their loved ones every day.

In Duped, Abby Ellin studies the art and science of lying, talks to people who've had their worlds upended by duplicitous partners, and writes with great openness about her own mistakes. These remarkable stories reveal how often we encounter people whose lives beneath the surface are more improbable than we ever imagined.

Binding Type: Hardcover
Publisher: PublicAffairs
Published: 01/15/2019
ISBN: 9781610398008
Pages: 272
Weight: 1.00lbs
Size: 9.20h x 6.00w x 1.20d

Review Citations: Kirkus Reviews 11/01/2018
Booklist 12/01/2018 pg. 5
Library Journal 03/01/2019 pg. 128