Wired Differently - Rebuilding Love After Neurodivergent Breakdowns

By Jessica Hintz

Are you navigating love with ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergent traits-and struggling to stay connected?

You're not alone, and you're not broken.

In Wired Differently, Jessica Hintz offers a compassionate, practical roadmap for neurodivergent couples seeking to rebuild trust, deepen connection, and truly understand each other after communication breakdowns, emotional dysregulation, and unmet needs have taken a toll.

Whether you or your partner experience literal thinking, impulsivity, meltdowns, shutdowns, sensory overload, or emotional misattunement, this powerful guide helps you transform frustration into clarity, confusion into compassion, and distance into genuine intimacy.

Inside you'll discover:

• Why undiagnosed or misunderstood neurodivergent traits quietly sabotage even loving relationships
• How ADHD and autism affect communication, conflict, affection, and trust
• The impact of neurodivergent emotional regulation and what "the blame game" really masks
• Practical tools like written agreements, pause phrases, co-regulation strategies, and sensory-friendly routines
• Tips for finding a neurodiversity-affirming couples therapist
• How to build a new relationship script that fits your brain and your bond
• Real stories of couples who reclaimed connection by embracing difference over conformity

Whether you're dating, married, in therapy, or finding your way back after a breakup, Wired Differently is an empowering self-help companion for building sustainable, affirming love when neurotypes don't match-because love doesn't have to look neurotypical to be real.